Everyone is your soul mate

If he really is your soul mate, your relationship will have these 10 things

“A soul mate is someone who has locks that fit our keys and keys that fit our locks. When we feel secure enough to open these locks, our true selves emerge and we can be fully and honestly who we are. "

Ah, soul mate.

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The epitome of love and partnership.

In our fast-paced, chaotic world of all kinds of people, we often try out more relationships than we'd like to find that one person who can really open our locks.

Not everyone can fulfill you the way your soulmate can.

There is a world of difference between your soulmate, the other half of your heart, and a life partner - someone who lacks the elements to blend in perfectly with you.

Your soulmate makes you feel completely complete, whole, and intact, as if no piece of the puzzle is missing. A life partner, on the other hand, can provide you with great support and be your companion for a long time, but has only a limited ability to enrich your spirit.

Most of us stay in relationships with life partners because we are "content" for a variety of reasons.

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First, we may have the real, unconscious fear of being alone. And since we are biologically designed to fall in love, it is only natural for us to pair up in this world. But sometimes we drag out what is meant to be a temporary relationship and mistakenly settle into it permanently.

There are relationships that need to last for a period of time to complete a karmic chapter in life, relationships in which we are meant to have children with our partner but not necessarily to stay with them, and relationships that are just plain confusing because a melting pot of emotions prevents us from seeing our destined path.

I've seen everything from couples who married their first childhood loves to retired people still struggling with attachment issues.

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Most of us lie somewhere between these two extremes, having experienced multiple relationships before we found the person we consider our perfect partner.

Whether you are currently married, in a relationship, or considering starting a relationship with a new potential partner, it is fundamentally important that you know what role that person will play in your life.

After all, there is no getting around the inevitable, often uncomfortable question that we have to ask ourselves: Is this the person I am destined to share my life with? Or did I settle too quickly in a relationship with someone who can never complete me?

No matter what category you belong in, there are several signs that clearly indicate a soulmate bond (or a lack of bond) between you and your partner.

As you go through this list, think about your partner or potential partner and evaluate whether they meet the soulmate criteria.

The 10 elements of a soulmate:

1. There is something inside.

It's hard to describe the feelings a soulmate makes. It's a persistent, deep, and lasting feeling that can't be put into words.

2. Flashbacks.

If your partner is your soul mate, it may well be that he or she was present in your past lives. Soulmates often choose to come back during the same lifetime and find each other in the big world.

You may experience sudden and brief flashbacks from your soul mate. You may even experience a strange sense of déjà vu, as if the moment has already happened, maybe a long time ago, maybe in a different place.

3. You just get along.

Have you ever met two people finishing each other's sentences? Some people would say they spend too much time together, but I do say that it's a soulmate connection.

You may experience this with your best friend or your mother, but it is a telling sign of a soul mate when you experience it with your partner.

4. You fall in love with his (or her) flaws.

No relationship is perfect, and even soulmate relationships go through ups and downs. Even so, this bond is much harder to break. Soulmates find it easier to accept each other's imperfections and even learn to love them.

Your relationship is more likely to be soulmates if you both love each other for who you are and accept both the great and bad tendencies we all have.

5. It's intense.

Soulmates may be more intense than normal relationships, in both good and sometimes bad ways.

Most importantly, even during negative episodes, you focus on solving the problem and that you can see beyond the bad moment.

6. You two against the rest of the world.

Soulmates often see their relationship as "us versus the rest of the world". They feel so connected that they can take on any feat in life as long as they have their soulmate by their side.

Soulmate relationships are primarily based on compromise and unity.

7. You are mentally inseparable.

Soulmates often have a mental bond that is similar to that of twins. For example, you pick up the phone at exactly the same time to call each other.

Even if life sometimes keeps you apart, you are always spiritually in harmony with one another when you are soul mates.

8. You feel safe and protected.

Regardless of your partner's gender, you should always feel safe and protected with him or her. If you are a man, that means: yes, your wife should make you feel protected too!

Your soulmate makes you feel like you have a guardian angel by your side. A person who plays with your insecurities, consciously or unconsciously, is not your soulmate.

9. You cannot imagine your life without him (or her).

You can't part with a soulmate so easily. It's someone you can't imagine being without, someone worth holding on to and fighting for.

10. You look each other in the eye.

Soulmates tend to look each other in the eye more often than ordinary couples when they talk. It comes naturally from the deep connection between them. Looking someone in the eyes while they speak indicates a high level of wellbeing and confidence.

Whether you are destined by the universe to be soul mates or two loving people who are content with each other's strengths and weaknesses is your decision.

The nice thing about free will is that you can stay in any relationship or change it as you see fit. Being with your soulmate is one of life's precious treasures.

And if you think that you have found the other half of your heart, I wish you endless days of joy and laughter and countless nights of deep embraces as you unravel the secrets of the universe one by one.